i had a crush on this guy and i decided to pull a Pavlov on him by offering him whenever i saw him this brand of candy he seemed to really like and after a while whenever he saw me he got excited for a second then you could see his expression shift to wondering the why the hell was he so happy to see me and i swear it was the evilest thing but also the most hilarious i made a guy like me by conditioning him into associating me to a candy he liked
1. Trying to please, and be acceptable, to others 2. The fear of making a mistake 3. The fear of change 4. A fear of the future 5. Guilt or shame that’s tied to your past 6. Beating yourself up or putting yourself down 7. Over-thinking 8. Living by your feelings 9. The desire to get even with others 10. The tendency to procrastinate.
“She was desperate and she was choosey at the same time and, in a way, beautiful, but she didn’t have quite enough going for her to become what she imagined herself to be.”—Charles Bukowski, Factotum (via teenager90s)